The Cross and Flame of the United Methodist Church

 

 

Redford Aldersgate
United Methodist Church

Sermon

Close Encounters of the Risen Kind:  Peter's Mother-in-law
May 14, 2006

 Introduction

During this Eastertide season, we have been looking at the encounters people had with the risen Christ as they are recorded in the Bible. We have used the venue of dramatic monologues to try to identify what might have been happening in the person’s mind and heart as they encountered the Risen Christ. We’ve met Mary Magdalene, Thomas, and one of the people on the Road to Emmaus. The encounter in today’s scripture is with Peter. We assume Peter had been present several times when Jesus had appeared to the disciples. In the Gospel of John, it says that the disciples were gathered together. We assume Peter was there or it would have mentioned that he was absent, just as it mentioned that Thomas was absent. In Luke when the people who were on the road to Emmaus came back they told them that Jesus had appeared to Simon. Most likely that was Simon Peter. So Peter had encountered the risen Christ several times. But when we think of Peter’s special encounter, we think of the story in John. Peter and several other disciples had returned home to Galilee. Peter said, “I’m going fishing.” The others said that they would join him. But they fished all night and caught nothing. However, in the morning, Jesus appeared on the beach and told them to put their nets on the other side of the boat. When they followed his direction, they caught 153 fish in one sweep of the net. When Peter realized it was Jesus, he dove into the water and swam to shore, leaving the other disciples to haul in the net full of fish. Jesus was waiting on the shore for them and had breakfast cooking on a fire. After breakfast, this conversation took place:


John 21:15-19

Monologue

Simon, where are you? Simon! Simon Peter! Where are you? Has anyone seen Simon, the Big Fisherman? He’s a big burly guy, smells like fish most of the time. Have you seen him? Have you seen him? That man, what AM I going to do with him? I know you were expecting to see Peter, but he must be out feeding sheep or catching more fish. Sorry about that. But since I’m here, I’ll tell you all about him.

Let me introduce myself. I’m Peter’s mother-in-law. I’ve known that man since he was a little boy. My husband and I knew right away that he would be a good one for our precious daughter. So we arranged their marriage when they were quite young. We’ve been pleased with our decision ... well at least most of the time we’ve been pleased... there are days... but then I suppose that would be true with anyone you’d pick. He’s rather impetuous and he speaks without thinking things through, but he has a big heart, that’s for sure! ... Like the time I first met Jesus. I was really sick, had a high fever. I don’t know how serious I was, but I sure was feeling low. I thought my time may have come. I couldn’t do anything. I couldn’t get out of bed. Then Simon came back from the synagogue with Andrew and James and John and this man I’d never met before. At first, I was a bit upset at Simon bringing company home. Didn’t he realize I was sick. But he did realize it... actually, that’s why he brought his new friend home. He just sensed that this new guy could help me out. For as soon as they came into the house, they told this man about me being sick. So he came over to my bedside and took me by the hand. Then he lifted me up. What an incredible experience that was! He was holding my hand with one of his hands and his other hand was behind my back, and as he lifted me up it was like a huge weight was falling off of me and suddenly the fever was gone. I was fine! It was amazing ... just like that, the fever was gone! Well, immediately, I got up and started fixing them something to eat. I felt great and it just seemed like the right thing to do. Actually, the more I served them, the better I felt. When you are healed, you respond by serving. ... Healing...serving ... serving ... healing... it just all goes together.

Well, anyway, that was the beginning of an incredible time that we all spent with this man called Jesus. His pet name for my son-in-law was Peter, which means the “rock.” Simon was a rock for all of us. He was always ready to help and do things. You could count on him, so we all began to call him Peter. Our house became the headquarters for Jesus’ ministry. They would go out and he would teach and preach and heal but then they would come back to our house when they needed a good meal or a little rest. It was really an exciting time. Lots and lots of amazing things happened. People were healed ... thousands of people were fed with just a small amount of food ... storms were quieted ... There were lots of amazing things that happened. Peter was always coming home with some amazing story to tell. Like the time they were in a boat and Jesus came walking toward them on the sea. Peter said it was really amazing. Peter was so caught up in the moment that he asked Jesus to command him to walk on the water too. So Jesus said, “Come.” And Peter got out and started walking on the water toward Jesus. He said he actually felt the water holding him up. But then he took his eyes off Jesus and looked at the wind and the waves and when he became frightened, he began to sink. But he held out his hand to Jesus and Jesus caught hold of him and saved him. That Simon Peter, so impetuous he was. He’d try anything. Things were exciting all right with Jesus around.

But then, they all went to Jerusalem for Passover. At first it was really exciting there too. People greeted Jesus like he was a big celebrity. But then things turned sour... terribly sour. They ended up crucifying Jesus. My Simon was there through the whole thing.

When Simon came back home from that terrible ordeal, he told me about everything that had happened. He told me about how a whole crowd had come to the garden at night when Jesus was praying and how they had seized Jesus and taken him away. He told me how he had drawn his sword and tried to protect Jesus. He even struck at the slave of the high priest and cut off his right ear. Huh... that man was never very good with a sword, cutting off an ear, what kind of attack is that? But at least he was trying. Poor Simon, he tried to be helpful, but he just wasn’t very strong that night. He told me how Jesus had asked him to keep watch while he prayed and how he had gone to sleep ... I guess Jesus woke him up three different times. That was really embarrassing for poor Simon. And then there was the time at the High Priest’s house. Simon Peter had followed the crowd into the courtyard. Then he sat down by the fire with the guards while they took Jesus inside for a trial. I guess one of the maids recognized Peter and asked him if he was with Jesus the Nazarene. But he denied it saying that he didn’t know or understand what she was talking about. Then he went out to the gateway and two other times when people asked him about being with Jesus, he denied it. I can’t imagine why he did that. He loved Jesus so much. But then, on the other hand, it was a dangerous situation. If he’d been arrested too, how would that have helped Jesus. Poor Simon, he felt so guilty about saying that he didn’t know Jesus. I guess Jesus had told him earlier in the evening that he would do that, but Peter had passionately declared that he would never deny Jesus even if he had to die with him. So when Simon came home, he told us all about the whole thing. As he told us about how weak he had been, we tried not to show him how shocked we were. He was being rough enough on himself. He was so weak and so vulnerable.

He also told us the incredible news about Jesus’ resurrection and about how he had appeared to them in the room behind closed doors. There were the stories of him appearing to the women and Mary Magdalene. Also there was the appearance to our two friends as they walked to Emmaus. As Simon Peter told us about all this, he would be animated and joyous, but then his countenance would just go back to that defeated weak guy that seemed so unlike the Simon Peter I knew. He just couldn’t get over the fact that he had let Jesus down. He would go around muttering, “I went to sleep in the garden and I said I didn’t know him.” Over and over he would say the same thing. It seemed like he was drowning in guilt. I wasn’t there that night when he had tried to walk on water, and then started to sink, but it sure seemed like he was sinking before my eyes. I kept telling him to get over it. I knew he could swim, but he just didn’t seem to have the will to do it. I said, “O.K. O.K. So you were a wimp. Get over it. That was then. This was now. Jesus is alive. He understands that you were weak. He still loves you. Get over it. Get busy continuing Jesus’ work. Go help someone. You know what Jesus wants you to do.” But my words fell on deaf ears. Listen to his mother-in-law?... Are you kidding. He’d have been better off... but he just couldn’t get over it.

Finally, there was that morning when he and some of the other guys went fishing. They fished all night and didn’t catch anything. But in the morning, Jesus came and walked along the shore. He yelled out to them to cast their nets on the other side of the boat. When they did, they caught so many fish they could hardly haul the net in because there were so many fish. John figured out right away that it was Jesus, so he told Peter and Peter jumped in and swam to shore. He was so excited to see Jesus. Then after they ate, Jesus had some one on one time with Simon. Three times he asked Simon if he loved him. And three times Peter had to say, “You know all things, you know that I love you.” And three times, Jesus told him to feed his sheep and tend his lambs. I think that was Jesus’ way of letting Simon make up for those three times he denied him and the three times he went to sleep. Whatever it was, it really worked. From that time on, Simon was his old Peter self... actually, he was a new-Peter-self. He was strong like the old Peter but he was also more compassionate. He really seemed to get what Jesus was talking about. He knew Jesus was not literally talking about feeding sheep. He was talking about caring for his people. Peter was healed... he was healed from his guilt... he was forgiven and loved and he accepted it. He got over it and went on with his life. He was healed so he served. Healing...serving.... serving ... healing... It all goes together. He learned, like I learned at the beginning of Jesus’ ministry, healing and serving go together.

And as Peter has gone about helping others and following Jesus by serving, he has grown stronger and more confident. The healing continues. The same is true for all of us. We goof up, just like Simon Peter did. But Jesus comes to us again and again giving us opportunity after opportunity to declare our love for him. As we do, and as we accept that love and forgiveness, then we can respond by serving others. Is there any part of you that needs healing today? ... body, mind, soul, spirit, relationships? Christ is here ready to take you by the hand, to lift you up, to drive away that fever ... to keep you from sinking ... to forgive you for goofing up ... take his hand... accept his healing and then respond by serving. Healing... serving ... serving ... healing... they go hand in hand. I know I’m only a mother-in-law ... but we mother-in-laws know a few things ... Now I must go find that son-in-law of mine. If you see him, tell him his mother-in-law is looking for him. 


 

 

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